I had toyed with the idea of blogging for weeks before my year abroad commenced, but didn’t get round to it, until now…
So after a very teary goodbye at the airport I arrived in the heat and humidity of September in Northern Italy, with my life in two suitcases and a violin on my back! Quite a different place to the Scandinavian year I had planned since February, but that’s a story for another time. Thanks to the angels otherwise known as Jenny and Lydia, I had an apartment to stay in for free as soon as I got to Parma, which was so amazingly helpful! I spent the first night with their housemate, Romy, and some of her friends also from Israel. It was a bit daunting at first being surrounded by Italians or people who spoke Italian but that was always going to be the case, after having almost no time to prepare myself.
The first week was full of excitement, panic, chaos, and feelings from complete happiness to sadness and everything in between! Until I found a room in an apartment, everything felt very ‘in limbo’, but as soon as I put down a deposit for this room, everything immediately became more settled and especially after the trip to IKEA on the free bus for things to decorate it with, I finally had a place to call home! And having met lots of other Erasmus students, mostly English but a few French, Spanish, German and Portuguese, we were all doing more socialising and spending time in the city, getting to know where the good coffee shops and bars were!
The second week in Italy saw our first night out at a club, NeroBlanco, which turned out to be one of the strangest nights out I’ve ever had! There’s a very odd system of here where entry is ‘free’, and you are given a drinks card with prices and boxes to be stamped. When you get a drink at the bar, the staff stamp the price of your drink, but you pay on the way out, before you leave. And so the first drink is always 8 euros! So expensive! We convinced ourselves this was ok as it covered the drink and the entry, (or exit?!) price, but agreed that it was a weird way of doing things! Very confusing! Apart from this we have all been taking full advantage of the ‘aperitivo’ culture, where food is provided at bars and you can help yourself when you buy a drink, how lovely!
One Sunday, Lydia and I had a fairly casual wander round the shops, on the eternal search for the perfect jacket, and as it started to rain, we stumbled into Chiesa della Steccata, a church just off the main square, Piazza Garibaldi. Turned out to be one of the most beautiful, awesome churches I’ve ever seen, with paintings all over the walls and all of the ceilings, and huge columns and pillars, and two huge organs at the back! When we entered it was deadly silent, but after about five minutes an organist started playing and it was just brilliant. We indeed up wandering round to where he was sat, at a new organ connected to both the old ones, and he just played bits of all sorts to us for about half an hour! For two music students it was so inspiring and such a lucky find!

It’s true what people say, Italians take a long time to do things! Usually this doesn’t matter, and gives a much more relaxed vibe to most things, but when it comes to filling in learning agreements and signing forms it’s so frustrating! It took us a whole week to pin down the right person in a meeting to finalise modules, after going into the Conservatorio three days in a row for various other meetings, only be to referred to a different person. Slightly stressing to say the least, and by the end of the week I was beginning to crack, but the Tetley’s teabags turned out to be a genius addition to my suitcase and saved me!
The end of this week has been the official Erasmus Welcome Weekend, and although most people have made their own friends and we aren’t all wandering around on our own like little lost sheep (exactly what I was like at first!) it was kind of nice to have nights out organised just for us
· There was a presentation on Thursday evening about all the trips and activities that the Erasmus society runs, then a huge trek out to ‘XXL Pub’, another place miles away from town!
· ‘Positiva’ club was Friday’s destination, again, miles away, and I’m not even sure that the trip on the infamous ‘Discobus’ was enough to make up for the strangeness of the club…the fact that it’s on an industrial estate and that there were children running around inside when first got there..?! But it turned out to be a good night, and all we could do was laugh at the situation, especially when one of the English girls, Gus, literally ran onto a dual carriageway roundabout at 2.30am, arms flailing, to get the departing Discobus to stop and let us on!
· La ‘BARatona’ was the title of Saturday night’s activity, a ‘maratona’ of bars, in other words, bar crawl! Parma is full of little bars on tiny side streets that you’d normally just walk past without looking down, so it was great to be shown a couple of these that we’d missed, and one that does 20% discount for Erasmus students. Great, apart from the fact that the cocktails are nearly pure alcohol and almost undrinkable, although in true Newcastle girls fashion Jen and I managed to ‘see off’ the most horrifically strong mojito ever!
· Sunday afternoon was basically a walk in the park, and around the city, on a guided tour. I couldn’t actually hear the speakers and so didn’t really learn anything new but there were blue skies, sunshine and a lovely autumn crispness in the air. Lots of photo opportunities around the city, Lyds and I got a little snap happy!